[Help from fellow group members]

Hello brothers and sisters, what I say here is absolutely sincere.
My problem, the court cannot help me, and the police can't help me either.
I have no way to get help from other channels.
I hope everyone can give me some advice.
I got engaged in 2024, and now, after two years of marriage, I haven't even had the marriage certificate for two years.
Now my wife wants to divorce me, and she is determined to do so.
I am from Jiangxi.
On the day of the engagement, I spent 450,000 yuan, and the subsequent expenses totaled about 600k yuan.
Because she can't get along with me, she wants a divorce.
I have not abused her, nor have I cheated.
She says I didn't take good care of her during her postpartum period.
When I went back, the baby woke up.
I prepared milk powder, changed diapers, boiled water, and cuddled the baby to sleep.
For a month, I basically slept about three hours a day.
This caused me to wake up late and not make breakfast for her.
She said I didn't make breakfast for her.
Later, I got up and made breakfast for her.
When I went to the kitchen, her mother said I didn't know how to cook, just to serve it.
So I didn't cook.
The decisions I made were always based on what was best for our little family.
Sometimes I didn't listen to her, mostly over trivial matters, and she wants a divorce.
I asked the court, and they said my situation would leave both sides empty.
I asked a lawyer, and he also said the chances are very small, almost none.
I just don't understand why.
They drained all my family savings just because you can't get along anymore.
It almost left my family destitute.
Where can I go to reason with them?
When the two families discussed this initially, she asked me what I would do with the child.
I said I would ask my father to resign and stay at home to help me focus on raising the child.
My grandmother is also there, and I work in the city, so I can take good care of my daughter.
I also considered her perspective.
I said, since you are determined to divorce, and the child is with you, how will you arrange it?
She directly said she would have her mother take care of the child.
Her parents explicitly said they would give the child to me.
She was unwilling.
I asked her, what if she remarries?
She said even if she remarries, the child can be taken care of by her mother.
I have never seen such a ruthless person.
You let a child over a year old lose most of his mother's love, and on top of that, you make him lose his father's love.
I think the police can't help me, the court can't help me.
Is there any other organization that can help me?