The most important lesson I’ve learned after becoming an adult

Is not how to make money, not how to socialize
But to stay away from anyone who drains your energy
Including those who drain your time, those who drain your emotions
Adults should protect their energy field the most
Your emotions, your time are limited resources
Who takes from you, who wastes you, you need to be clear in your heart
Your energy field is like a battery
Chatting with toxic people drains 50%
Having a bad meal that makes you unhappy drains 80%
Some people even start to drain your energy just by thinking about them
The greatest practice of adulthood
Is to identify these “energy-draining types”
Then mute, delete, stay away
Stay away from those who reach out for emotional value
Stay away from those who occupy your time without reason
Stay away from people who always complain and spread negative energy when they chat with you
It’s not heartless, it’s being clear-headed