What game are you playing? What kind of friends do you want to make? Do you want to enter a casino or a church?

Brother NaiZi's previous mindset when trading cryptocurrencies often fell into such terrible emotions: I really want to make money, then I quickly look for coins that seem promising, buy in and delude myself into thinking more people will buy, brainwash myself into believing it will definitely rise, then sell at a higher price, and even if it crashes and loses money, I will only blame the market sentiment.
I've never thought about what my competitive advantage is, nor have I ever understood what kind of game I'm really playing, or who the winners of this game are.
Since Brother NaiZi realized he has no competitive advantage in trading cryptocurrencies, he hasn't bought a single coin in over half a year.
Buffett recently talked about church culture and casino culture, and his words were very insightful: casino people are aggressive and like to argue. Church people like to help each other and be happy together.
Brother NaiZi hopes to make more friends who admire church culture and doesn't want to make friends with those who admire casino culture.