Why do you say that you want a boyfriend or husband with a high level of understanding and problem-solving ability?

Then you have to accept that she may not be very good at comforting you,
And even if she is good at comforting you now, it will be difficult to maintain after marriage.
Actually, this is not because she doesn't love you enough or has low emotional intelligence,
But because it is a fundamental destiny jointly determined by men's growth experiences, thinking frameworks, and psychological and physiological traits.