A few days ago, I had a long chat with two "A10" big shots from Singapore 🇸🇬.

I think they made a lot of sense, so I整理ed and shared it with everyone:
1. The primary core of family is economy, not emotions.
2. The first principle of the workplace is value, not effort.
Many people work hard but overlook the提升 and展示 of their own value, ultimately只能 linger at the底层.
3. The key to socializing is利益互换, not pure friendship.
Without利益 connections, friendships are often hard to sustain long-term.
4. The primary purpose of education is to培养能力, not追求 scores.
Children with high scores but low能力 will find it hard to stand in future society.
5. The first element of health is自律, not医疗.
Relying on医疗 only when sick is less effective than养成 good生活习惯 regularly.
6. The foundation of love is理解, not激情.
Passion always fades; only理解 can make love last long.
7. The first point of entrepreneurship is市场需求, not个人喜好.
Starting a business based solely on personal喜好可能会血本无归.
8. The primary原则 of investment is风险控制, not高回报.
Focusing only on high回报 often leads to巨大的风险.
9. The first pursuit in life is幸福, not成功.
Success doesn't necessarily bring happiness, but幸福 is the most宝贵的财富 in life.
10. The first保障 for retirement is提前规划, not依赖子女.
Children also have their own生活压力, so不能把养老完全寄托在他们身上.
11. The first动力 for成长 is反思, not经历.
Without反思,经历 is just fleeting烟云.
12. The primary意义 of学习 is应用, not积累知识.
Knowledge only有价值 when applied to实际.
13. The first收获 of旅行 is见识, not拍照打卡.
True旅行 is about开阔视野,增长见识.
14. The first支撑 of marriage is责任, not浪漫.
浪漫会消逝, only责任 can make marriage稳固.
15. The first智慧 of生活 is知足, not无尽的欲望.
Understanding知足 allows us to find真正的快乐 in life!
After reading this, I instantly feel that life has become透彻.