I know a woman.

Her younger brother is twenty-one, just dropped out of college and hasn't gone back, borrowing a ton of online loans outside.
The first time was thirty thousand, and the debt collection calls went to her mom's phone.
Her mom cried, asking her to find a way, and she scraped together thirty thousand to pay it off.
The second time, four months later, another twenty thousand.
The third time, eight thousand.
Her own salary is only five thousand, and she's taken out credit cards multiple times.
Her mom said, your brother is still young and naive, if you, as his sister, don't help him, he'll ruin himself.
Twenty-one, with a height of 1.78 meters, her mom says he's still young.
Her brother later got a girlfriend and wanted a car.
Her mom asked her to take out the eighty thousand she saved for the down payment, put the car in her brother's name, and let him pay the monthly installments himself.
But after two months of payments, he stopped paying, and in the end, she had to cover it herself.
She's thirty and still not married, can't save money.
She dated someone before, but they broke up because of her brother.
When she told me all this, she was crying.
I told her, just forget