When I was young, I thought the most important thing in life was choices.

Later I realized,
There are many things in life that you simply do not choose.
The family you're born into,
The kind of parents you encounter,
The injuries your body endures,
The situation the era gives you.
These things are not your choice.
But once they come,
You must endure them.
So the real difficulty in life is not that everyone can get a good hand.
It's that some people, after receiving a bad hand,
Still find a way to play it.
I increasingly feel that,
Sometimes fate is not a multiple-choice question,
But a question of endurance.
How much disappointment can you bear,
How much uncertainty,
How much invisible pressure from others,
Ultimately determines how far you can go.
But endurance does not mean resignation.
Truly remarkable people,
Are not those who have never been pressed by fate.
But those who, after being pressed,
Can still gradually lift themselves up.
So I’ve always believed that,
The strongest part of a person is not when they are winning and looking impressive,
But when they are in a low point and still haven't fallen apart.