Let me tell you a secret,

Actually, most of life's disasters,
are man-made, first because of one's own poor judgment,
choosing the wrong people to associate with, secondly because of one's own lack of judgment,
and thirdly because of indecisiveness, staying with
problematic people instead of leaving...
When you see someone who has no bad people or bad things around them, it shows that they are both smart and particularly ruthless!