Mind Eye Training (Part Two)

1. Two-Handed Planning. Always have a Plan B when doing things.
2. Don’t show off anything. The moment you start showing off yourself is often the beginning of disaster.
3. Speak less. If you have the habit of replying ten times when someone asks once, you must change it.
When you speak, what you say must be more valuable than your silence.
4. Half Human, Half Demon. In life and in doing things, be half a gentleman and half a petty person—adapt to circumstances as needed.
5. Be firm and decisive. When you feel hesitant, decisively refuse; if you need to resist, resist.
People you don’t get along with may still be unbearable even after two years of adjustment.
6. Control your mouth. Say bad words in your mind, harsh words in your heart, and never talk big.
7. With relatives. Keep a distance that’s neither too close nor too far—just right.
8. Communicate generously. Be sharp in your eyes—dare to meet others’ gaze directly without dodging.
Keep your likes and dislikes from showing on your face; don’t expose your true emotions.
9. Turn hostile. Don’t be afraid of any person or any matter—the more you’re afraid, the more trouble you’ll have.
Turning hostile is the best way to resolve interpersonal conflicts.
10. Be bold. 90% of people are cowards—be bold and you’ll win.
With confidence, boldness, and courage, you’ll already succeed by half.
11. Speak sweetly. Sweet talk is the best way to win people over—even if it’s performed.