Parents with a strong inner world:


First, when your child throws a tantrum at you, what you see is not an attack, but their deep-seated grievance.
Second, when your child argues back, what you see is not stubbornness, but a heart that needs affirmation.
Third, when your child lies to you, what you see is not deception, but the fear they feel after being caught.
Fourth, when your child dawdles and procrastinates, what you see is not laziness, but a heart filled with frustration and helplessness.
Fifth, when your child desperately seeks to please, what you see is not obedience and understanding, but their longing eyes for approval.
Sixth, when your child is indifferent and silent towards you, what you see is not rebellion, but a crack in their sense of security.
Truly impressive parents are not quick to get angry and scold their children, but can stay calm, understand their child's grievances, and warm their inner world with understanding and companionship. They know that behind their child's misbehavior and temper tantrums, the underlying message is actually "Mom and Dad, help me."
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