What is Emotional Intelligence

1. Emotional intelligence is — when you encounter someone you don't like, you neither get angry nor lose your temper, just like mom said, keep it in your heart and be polite on the surface.
2. Emotional intelligence is — when others boast, you neither agree nor undermine, just listen quietly.
3. Emotional intelligence is — when the neighbor shows off their child getting into a prestigious school, you don't say "My son was the same back then," but sincerely say, "I'm really happy for you!"
4. Emotional intelligence is — when a friend is crying and complaining, you don't rush to give advice, but first hand them a tissue and say, "If I were in your shoes, I might feel even worse."
5. Emotional intelligence is — when the waiter dirties your clothes, you don't say "What did you do," but instead say, "It's okay, just wash it."
6. Emotional intelligence is — when mom's cooking is too salty, you don't say "It's too salty," but say, "Today's dish goes well with rice, I can eat an extra bowl!"
7. Emotional intelligence is — when your child performs poorly, you don't shout "You're so stupid," but say, "Come on, dad will take you to get ice cream, and after eating, we'll review the mistakes together."
8. Emotional intelligence is — when a couple is arguing and suddenly says, "Wait, I think I might also be at fault."
9. Emotional intelligence is — when a colleague takes credit, you don't expose "This was obviously me," but instead send the email to the boss in advance next time.