If you are an extremely responsible person, you must strictly control your connections with the outside world and cut off those consuming and demanding connections in a timely manner; otherwise, you are being irresponsible to yourself. Being irresponsible to yourself is the greatest irresponsibility, and at that point, your responsibility to others is actually a harmful mindset implanted after being PUAed.

The essence of human connection with the outside world is resource exchange, and the principle of exchange must be balanced; unbalanced exchange is consumption.
If you are an irresponsible person, a consuming personality, then you should try to create more connections with the outside world; after all, anyone who gets involved with you is just being taken advantage of by you—more is better.
If you are not, then you must stay alert. The better, more genuine, and sincere you are, the more you should enjoy solitude, because those wandering outside are all consuming absorbers seeking connections, hoping to profit through those connections.