You first get crazy, only then will luck catch up, start by labeling yourself, I am awesome, don’t worry about whether it fits or not, pretending for a long time, you start to believe it yourself, and others will believe it too, then the opportunity truly comes, go do that thing you've always been afraid of, after you finish, you'll realize it's nothing special, these four words are the strongest mental method, they make you understand, so you realize, you can be very strong too, and fear is just a paper tiger.