Many people's biggest misconception about attending meetings is thinking that just by participating, they can build connections,

The harsh truth is that if both parties cannot provide a relatively equal exchange of value, they will quickly forget who is who.
The key to effectively establishing relationships is one's own value and altruism.
Beautiful women and handsome men are still scarce resources, but as beautiful women and handsome men, do not overestimate your own value.
Good looks are a bonus and a stepping stone, but they are not the core of one's own value.