I have a 38-year-old childhood friend. She never used to get married and would just mess around all day. She especially likes the outdoors—camping, fishing, hiking—basically, she spends every day playing. He even bought a motorcycle before, riding it from Xinjiang to Tibet, from the Daxinganling area all the way to Hainan, just doing this every day. I said: You’re almost 40—people your age can’t keep sinking like this. Then I tried every which way to persuade him every day: