Children who grow up in less-than-ideal family environments are already quite impressive if they are a beat or two behind; don't blame yourself too much. While others are growing up, you are still caught in the internal struggles of your family. While others are building their careers, you are still desperately trying to climb out of the quagmire. Reaching the top of the mountain is certainly impressive, but climbing from the bottom of the valley to the ground is just as remarkable.