When you're working at the bottom of society,

most of the boys around you are very hungry.
As soon as you enter, they start to fixate on you,
like a piece of fatty meat,
thinking about taking a bite,
seeing if they can sleep with you at low cost.
When you're lacking, you also crave these things.
That's why many young girls,
after leaving their parents,
seamlessly connect and cohabitate with a man.
Living together for seven or eight years,
to satisfy these men's sexual desires,
doing laundry and cooking, among other things.
A few years later, they go home to get married and have children,
feeling it's a pity—
the so-called experience of seeing the world,
and venturing out into the world,
all for nothing.
Because once she steps into society,
she immediately retreats,
hiding with that man,
treating a man as a spiritual support,
living under his so-called protection.
Apart from having children,
by her early twenties, she’s already living like her mother.
Want to grow up?
That’s not called venturing into the world.
So basically, for girls from rural areas or small towns who haven't gone to school,
the options are just a few.
After entering society,
don’t settle down with a man within ten years,
don’t even think about it!
All your time and attention
should be on yourself:
thinking about how to find a better job,
learning more skills,
how to make money,
how to leverage the resources around you,
whether working with others, exchanging, or borrowing help,
how to make your life and work better and more ideal.
These are the real priorities.