If you say you like someone else's wife, it sounds improper.

Change the wording, and saying the person you love became someone else's wife suddenly makes you seem deeply affectionate.
If you say going to work makes you feel terrible, it sounds like you don't love your job.
Rephrase it, and saying you feel awful all over but still persist in going to work suddenly makes you a model of dedication.
If you like a woman and you tell her you want to sleep with her, you're a scoundrel.
Change the wording, and saying you want to wake up together with her, and suddenly you're like Xu Zhimo.