A very clear statement that immediately brings clarity upon reading. Zeng Shiqiang said, I only realized these truths in my forties.

Soft-hearted people are often those without blessings. Soft-hearted people, even if they suffer grievances themselves, will still try to fulfill others. Being soft-hearted seems magnanimous, but in reality, it is foolish; it appears kind, but in truth, it is cowardly.
Too many people become pitiable because they pity others. The better one's character, the fewer friends they have; the kinder their heart, the more suffering they endure.
Do not casually pity anyone. Soft-hearted people compromise everywhere, continually retreating, often giving others the chance to hurt themselves. Always remember that one should not be soft-hearted, especially when helping those who should not be helped, as that takes away one's own blessings.
Let us encourage each other.