At the 30–40-year-old crossroads, if you’re hesitating about whether to have children, go watch the Oscar-nominated film *Biutiful*—it’s a movie called *Biutiful*. When I was young, I didn’t want to follow the trend blindly; I kept thinking about why I should have children. One day, after watching this film, I found the meaning of having children. The entire film is extremely oppressive. It depicts the real-life struggle and helplessness of the protagonist (terminal cancer, and business trouble that leads to a death)—it’s not really about children.