Trade the third weapon — love!

I've been liquidated four times.
Every time feels like a cliff breakup — the moment your account hits zero hurts more than any heartbreak. That number represents countless days and nights of watching charts, analyzing, and reviewing, only to vanish in seconds.
After the first liquidation, I doubted myself.
The second time, I doubted the market.
The third time, I doubted life.
The fourth time, I sat in front of my computer, staring at the candlesticks, and suddenly laughed. I picked up my phone and sent a voice message to my girlfriend:
"I might need you to support me."
She replied with just one sentence, "Come to Guangzhou, I'll take care of you."
I went through four liquidations and changed three girlfriends in between.
Not because I'm a player, but because every time I fell, some people would leave due to the落差 (difference) of life before and after.
Others, out of faith, chose to hold me close.
And my life and trading had to move on.
So what is a trader's love?

Love is — "no revenge trading."
After being hurt by the market, the most natural reaction is "I have to earn it back" — then you go heavy, hold, and get liquidated.
This is the "revenge relationship" in trading, and the result is always a lose-lose.
True love is accepting the loss, accepting that it's already happened, accepting that you can't change the past — then closing the position, resting, and waiting for the next trade.

Love is — "not giving up easily." After being hurt, the easiest thing to do is say "I no longer believe." Those who close all positions and swear never to trade again aren't doing it because they see through everything — it's because they've lost the ability to love.
If you can still see this post, it means you still believe there are opportunities for you in this market — and that is an expression of love.
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Love is — "being honest with yourself." After liquidation, the hardest thing isn't accepting your account going to zero — it's accepting that "the mistake was mine."
When you love someone, you accept all of them, including their flaws; when you love trading, you admit your mistakes and keep moving forward with them.

Discipline is the blade, faith is the shield.
But what truly makes you pick up the blade and shield again and again is a word hidden deep in your heart — love.
Love makes you willing to stand up after being knocked down by the market.
Love makes you willing to open the next candlestick after your account hits zero.
Love makes you realize: you're not gambling — you're spending your life with the market.
This is the third weapon for traders that I'm sharing with my family today — love!
It's not something you're born with; it's the greatest belief that allows you to survive bull and bear markets alike!