People love asking why birth rates keep falling, but get defensive the moment someone points out how expensive kids have become.

Every time a parent says they’re struggling, the response is the same:
“Spend less.”
“Find a cheaper option.”
“Plan better.”
Sure, budgeting matters.
But when a routine trip for diapers, wipes, and formula can easily cost $120+, something bigger is going on.
Most parents aren’t chasing luxury. They’re trying to keep food on the table, pay the bills, and raise their kids without constant financial stress.
Maybe fewer people are having children because raising them has become unaffordable for ordinary families.