A normal person's life has only 4 chances to turn things around

① Rely on parents
80% of families are ordinary households, and the ability to support children to succeed is only for the few. Children without an umbrella can only run on their own from the start.
② Rely on studying
Studying is the lowest-cost way to reverse your fate, but what truly changes destiny is getting into a 985 or 211 university, and earning a ticket to a big company.
With an ordinary education, you can meet basic needs, but it's hard to get rich quickly; the upper limit is often easily seen.
③ Rely on marriage
Marriage is a chance to choose your social class again. Looks, emotional intelligence, and vision are the chips for women; ability, wealth, and responsibility are the confidence for men.
But relying on luck, the land, or marriage is less stable than relying on yourself.
④ Rely on self-awareness
This is the only chance most ordinary people can grasp and the most reliable one. No help, no background, no high looks, no high education—none of that matters.
What truly makes a difference is awakening.
See through the true nature of life, understand the logic of making money,
no more internal conflict, no more complaints, no more wasting time; from confusion and ignorance to actively breaking the deadlock.
The first three rely on luck, background, and choices; only the fourth is completely in your own hands.