Only after divorce will you realize that if you want to marry a capable wife, you must accept her assertiveness; if you want to marry a gentle wife, you have to accept her dependence. If you want to marry a beautiful wife, you need to accept her spending habits. If you want to marry a wife who knows how to manage daily life, you must accept her ordinariness. If you want to marry a wife who makes money, you have to accept her neglect of family. If you want to marry a family-oriented wife, you also have to accept that she doesn't make money. So men, when you want both and still want more, first think about whether you are worthy.