just scrolled past some comments about Weng Fan and honestly, the aging gap between her and Yang Zhenning is pretty striking. like, they got married when she was 28, and now after 20 years you can really see the difference? he looks way better preserved than she does. makes you think about how much it takes to maintain yourself when you're constantly in the spotlight. Weng Fan's been so focused on everything else that her own self-care probably took a backseat, which is kind of sad when you think about it. the whole "you become what you're around" thing hits different when you actually see it play out. wonder if she ever gets time to just... breathe and take care of herself? 🤔