Gate 2025 Year-End Community Festival Many Chinese children, when they were young, came from poor families. When they went to the supermarket with their parents, after buying things, they would ask the child what they wanted. The children would shake their heads, and they attributed this to the children being well-behaved. But that's not true. If a child always refuses everything, it means they are suppressing their true feelings. When they refuse everything, there is a high probability that, in their heart, they are already unwell.