Loving someone ultimately depends on their character. The so-called "character foundation" is the nature that reveals itself in valleys, conflicts, and under pressure; it is the most basic and stable aspect of a person, which remains difficult to change whether the weather is calm or stormy. It is like the base color of a canvas, determining the final tone of the painting, regardless of how many vibrant colors are layered on top. Some people have kindness as their instinct, and a sense of responsibility deeply rooted in their bones; even when losing control, they do not harm others. Some appear gentle and considerate, but when faced with a crisis, they avoid, belittle, and turn against others. The deepest sense of security in intimate relationships does not come from promises, but from the character foundation that you can see, trust, and have repeatedly verified.