Why are some people especially afraid of authority and don’t dare to refuse others?

Many times it’s not because they’re timid,
but because since childhood they haven’t experienced
“being loved even after conflict.”
When a child’s expressions are often denied,
refusing leads to punishment,
and resistance is suppressed,
what he learns isn’t communication,
but obedience.
After becoming an adult,
what he fears isn’t authority itself,
but what authority might bring behind it