How to adjust your mindset after missing out on an ex-boyfriend who earned around 600,000 yuan a year?

Let me tell a story.
Once, my dad pursued a woman.
At that time, my dad was just a basic technician at the company.
That woman didn't look down on him, but chose to be with the company's vice president (who was a senior executive).
Later, my dad read a book—Lu Yao's "The Ordinary World"—and through that, he met my mom.
They got married, and I was born.