Bringing kids along and reuniting, the scariest thing isn't money, but the feeling of mutual suspicion and too much calculation.

The Real Situation of the Second Marriage Market
1. Women who are divorced and have a son usually deter most men.
2. Men who are divorced and have children, whether boys or girls, most women are unwilling to accept.
3. When both parties are divorced and have children, there will be suspicion and concerns about each other, worried that the other has ulterior motives.
4. Although it is a second marriage, women’s demands for marriage dowries and the three golds are not reduced at all, and all are indispensable.
5. The partners they dated when young are mostly not mature enough; after divorce, remarriage will pay more attention to practical conditions.
6. In the second marriage market, older women and men with average looks are at a disadvantage and find it difficult to find suitable partners.
7. Women with good conditions who are divorced often do not easily choose to remarry.
8. Most divorced men still hope to find a new partner to spend the rest of their lives.