Why don't men want to marry women with dominant personalities? Out of 100 points, a dominant personality directly deducts 41 points, leaving only 59 points for all other advantages combined. I'm going to tell you directly today: when looking for a woman, if you want a long-term relationship and want to build a life together, you must prioritize her personality. She can be unemployed, she can have average looks, she can come from a poor family background, but her personality must be gentle, and she must have a good attitude toward you.