Sooner or later, you'll discover that many things don't matter, and you don't need to care about them.

When you start to let go of those unimportant things, you'll become free, happy, and become "yourself" — not seeking a stereotypical image in society.
Becoming yourself means earning your own money, saying what you want to say, doing what you want to do, and not caring what anyone says when they haven't earned you a single cent.