The invisible bullying that terrifies parents upon careful consideration: imposing excessive responsibilities and expectations on children, motivating them with belittling language, emotionally punishing them through cold violence, depriving children of their privacy or even publicly mocking them, venting bad emotions onto children or complaining to them, frequently correcting children over trivial matters, using feelings of sacrifice/moral obligation to manipulate children, applying double standards or arbitrary changes to standards regarding children, and double constraints ( nothing is right this way, nothing is right that way ). The first person to bully children is often their parents. When we talk about bullying, we often think of school violence, but neglect the most covert and lethal form of violence—parental invisible bullying, which locks our happiness for a lifetime like shackles.