Do you really think that you can complete this doomed relationship by your own efforts? I'm telling you, it's impossible; in the end, it still depends on the other person's indifference. Even if you convince yourself a thousand times that you should give up, there will always be that thousand and first time when you return to square one. But if you feel the other person's coldness and indifference, you will completely give up. In the world of emotions, self-struggle is often futile; it is the fatal blow given by the other party that is the final shackles closing your heart. What is called obsession is just waiting for a moment of despair. From then on, the mountains and rivers will not meet; no questions about how the old friends are doing.