Never let close friends with bad influence stay at your home for more than a week.
People's sense of boundaries is elastic. Once time stretches on, the bad influence friend will keep pushing closer to that boundary. This is the most tense and dangerous moment in a relationship.
Letting a close buddy stay at my place for two weeks, I've developed this growing resentment of "eating my food, using my things, and still constantly putting me down." Thankfully he's leaving this weekend, otherwise I'm really worried we'd end up fighting.
An important but nobody told me before:
Never let close friends with bad influence stay at your home for more than a week.
People's sense of boundaries is elastic. Once time stretches on, the bad influence friend will keep pushing closer to that boundary. This is the most tense and dangerous moment in a relationship.
Letting a close buddy stay at my place for two weeks, I've developed this growing resentment of "eating my food, using my things, and still constantly putting me down." Thankfully he's leaving this weekend, otherwise I'm really worried we'd end up fighting.