The Buddha said,

Human life is destined by heaven, and it is useless to think wildly.
In fact, from the moment man is born,
will determine your life,
Which bowl of rice to eat in your life,
What can be accomplished in a lifetime,
What stumbles in a lifetime,
How many children have been in my life,
How long do your parents stay with you?
These are all definite numbers,
in other words
Sometimes there must be in life,
Don't force it in your life,
Just let it be!