You will live a good life by staying away from a certain type of person.

In your lifetime, as long as you stay away from those who play the victim in their self-created problems, you can live well.
These are people who, when they are upset by your actions—actions that clearly provoked me—react naturally, but their reaction then angers you, turning them into victims.
They start blaming your reaction instead of reflecting on their own behavior.
This kind of person is someone who, when they hurt you, you still can't bring yourself to mention it; if you do, you become the aggressor, and they become the victim, even turning the tables and shifting all the blame onto you.
Therefore, learn to cut losses in time, move on, and stay away.