Why does one person live such a tiring life?

First, they are at odds with themselves, constantly enduring the constraints of rules.
Second, internal conflict—doing meaningless things every day, wasting time and energy without a sense of achievement.
Third, being PUA'd by others—frequently being negated, often being morally coerced in front of you.
Fourth, living under others' evaluations—often influenced by others.
Are there any others? Feel free to add 😂😂.