Why don't men want to marry women with strong personalities? If we score it out of 100, a domineering personality directly costs 41 points, leaving only 59 points for all other advantages combined. Let me tell you straight today: when looking for a woman, if you want a long-term relationship and a stable life, you must prioritize her personality above all else. She doesn't need to have a job, she doesn't need to be conventionally attractive, her family background doesn't need to be good—but her personality must be gentle, and her attitude toward you must be good.