When is a man most shameful?

First: Not having a car is not shameful.
Second: Not having a house is not shameful.
Third: Not having savings is not shameful.
Fourth: Borrowing money from friends is not shameful.
Fifth: Wearing cheap street vendor clothes is not shameful.
Sixth: Riding an electric scooter is not shameful.
Seventh: Eating street food is not shameful.
Eighth: Being meek and timid outside, but yelling and screaming at home—this is the most shameful.
Ninth: Lacking ability yourself, yet blaming your parents for not providing good conditions—this is the most shameful.
Tenth: Being stingy with your wife and children, but generous with fair-weather friends—this is shameful.