There's a saying in the investment circle: don't try to swing trade when you should be holding a heavy position; your energy is your greatest capital. The most talented years for a girl, don't squeeze your growth for uncertain relationships. Successful people are tough on themselves in their twenties: they don't waste time on people and things that don't help them grow. It's not indifference, but clarity. Skills, savings, and cognition are your trump cards after thirty.