Soft-heartedness can cost you a lifetime

1. Do not sympathize with anyone, even those closest to you, because: sympathizing with someone automatically burdens your subconscious with their fate.
2. Do not carry anyone's fate on your shoulders; first fulfill your own mission. Only when your wings are full and you have extra strength should you help those around you. If your wings are not yet full and your abilities are insufficient, helping at this moment will only drag you down. It may seem unfair, but it is actually foolish.
3. Sympathy for others is useless; real help is effective. The former creates an atmosphere that easily leads to self-pity, while the latter... inspires self-improvement.
4. Excessive compassion often drags you into an endless muddy pit. Doing things to help others achieve specific small goals is usually truly effective, clean, refreshing, and decisive.
5. When helping others, use your brain. Set clear boundaries and choose the right approach.
6. Bearing the fate of those around you results in blurred boundaries, mutual infringement, self-harm, and falling into endless group conflicts.
7. No matter the era, for individuals, a happy family is the primary productivity.
8. Stay away from people who are bad for you and from negative environments, because they will cause resentment and hostility, and hostility is the number one killer of a beautiful life.
9. Being difficult is one of the most evil things in the world.
10. If someone treats you badly, try closing your heart to them rather than closing your heart to the whole world.