I wonder if everyone has noticed that people from the North generally speak with a louder voice, sometimes sounding like they're arguing, while most people from the South speak more softly and slowly.

Honestly, men should find a gentle wife, and girls should look for a partner who is emotionally stable and doesn't talk too much!
Otherwise, during menopause, it can really be a nightmare!
I've seen many scenes where the whole family gathers together during the New Year, and there's chaos and fuss. It makes me realize how important it is to have an emotionally stable family.
Emotional stability
is the best Feng Shui for a family.
At home,
when your brow is relaxed, the home is like spring,
at home,
when you have a clouded face, the home feels like a rainy day.
The energy you bring in when you open the door,
determines the fortune of this home.
Being polite to outsiders
is good manners,
being harmonious with family
is a form of cultivation.
So-called maturity
is not about age increasing,
but about knowing how to bring the best emotions back home.
The best Feng Shui for a home
lies in your and my emotions.
When emotions are stable,
the home runs smoothly;
when the home is smooth,
good fortune will naturally come.