What is my biggest secret to confidence? It's winning once with my own hands, just once, and then dispelling the illusions about all people and matters. Confidence is from zero to one—learning extensively, researching thoroughly, practicing repeatedly—entering a state of flow, establishing a stable core. It's about withstanding pressure and achieving goals, refining yourself, appreciating yourself, and falling in love with yourself. The root cause of many people's lifelong lack of confidence is one thing: they've never won, even if the opponent is themselves. Self-assured confidence that is proud and upward always comes from your last success, from something you personally accomplished. Remember, confidently stepping up and winning once will let you know how exhilarating it is to have the backing of real strength. It's better to carry a bit of edge and arrogance than to hide in inferiority and tough it out. Be more certain, more straightforward, more decisive—I'm at peace with myself, regardless of others.
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What is my biggest secret to confidence? It's winning once with my own hands, just once, and then dispelling the illusions about all people and matters. Confidence is from zero to one—learning extensively, researching thoroughly, practicing repeatedly—entering a state of flow, establishing a stable core. It's about withstanding pressure and achieving goals, refining yourself, appreciating yourself, and falling in love with yourself. The root cause of many people's lifelong lack of confidence is one thing: they've never won, even if the opponent is themselves. Self-assured confidence that is proud and upward always comes from your last success, from something you personally accomplished. Remember, confidently stepping up and winning once will let you know how exhilarating it is to have the backing of real strength. It's better to carry a bit of edge and arrogance than to hide in inferiority and tough it out. Be more certain, more straightforward, more decisive—I'm at peace with myself, regardless of others.