Sometimes, casually pitying others is not as important as pitying oneself. People with weak hearts usually have no fortune; remember, a soft heart is a disease, and deep feelings can be deadly. Too many people become pitiful themselves because they pity others. A soft heart may seem magnanimous but is actually foolish; it may seem kind but is truly weak. At any time, do not meddle in the karma of others. As long as it does not involve your interests, do not refute what others say, nor preach or argue, because wise people do not need teaching, fools cannot be taught, and stubborn people will not listen. By sympathizing with someone, you may carry their fate in your subconscious, and even well-meaning actions can lead to trouble. Respect others' destinies, put down the urge to help, and take care of yourself first; that is the most correct approach.