Don't envy anyone's life. Every household has its own troubles; often, others are not living a glamorous life, but rather, their mess is just not visible to you. Life isn't about being happy or unhappy, but rather about knowing when to be content. Some people have bad marriages but excellent children; some have good marriages but poor health; some have successful careers but disharmonious families; some have harmonious families but live in poverty. Therefore, the best state of life is to seek what is lacking rather than striving for perfection. Fortune should not be exhausted; leave some for others. Gains should not be monopolized; leave some for others. Achievements should not be greedy; share some with others. Because when the cup is full, it overflows; when the moon is full, it wanes.

There is no such thing as perfection in this world. Everyone's life has its own shortcomings, and behind what seems glamorous, there may be untold hardships. Behind what appears to be success and fame, there may be regrets that are heart-wrenching. Life is essentially a multiple-choice question, and no matter how you choose, you will end up making the wrong choice. Being married means a lack of freedom; not being married raises the question of companionship in old age. If you don’t work hard, you won’t have money for retirement, yet working too hard might mean you won’t even live to old age. It’s impossible for everything to go smoothly; one can only hope for partial satisfaction in everything. You envy others' glamorous lives, but they might be envious of your carefree attitude. You envy others' wealth, while they envy your health and safety.

So there is no need to envy anyone. Cherish every day you are alive, enjoy everything you currently have, and give up those unattainable desires. Live this life simply and peacefully. The companionship of family and a healthy body are also among the most precious treasures in life. In life, you must give up some things to gain others. There is no standard answer in life; the way you like is the best way at the moment.