Love is a luxury, money is a necessity - first make a living, then seek love.

In youth: Thought "I will support you" was a sweet talk, later realized "I have money" is the real confidence. After maturity: Love is like a stream, flowing freely is what lasts; forced fate is like tightly clenched sand, slipping away faster. The ultimate truth: Deep affection is not as good as shallow love; indifference is not the same as coldness—relationships with gaps are the most enduring. Wisdom in dealing with the world:
"When the wallet is full, the heart won't panic; when the balance is high, the choices won't be few."