The reason others bully you is because you show weaknesses that can be exploited: flattery, compromise, patience, and avoidance all make people think you're easy to bully. A petty person is not necessarily moral; they are instinctively driven by self-interest and avoiding harm. The more you care about or fear something, the easier you are to be used. True strength is not about showing off or pretending; it's about seeing yourself clearly, no longer being swayed by judgments or threats, and not fearing exposing your weaknesses. When you accept and face your vulnerabilities, they no longer become tools for others to control you; instead, they become your armor, preventing you from being hurt easily.