I've tried various dating apps recently, and there are really so many options that it can be overwhelming. Even just among apps used by people in their 20s to 30s for dating or marriage purposes, there are over 20, each with completely different features. Finding the recommended matching app that suits you best can surprisingly be quite challenging.

Personally, I feel that the apps with larger user bases tend to offer higher chances of meeting someone. Pairs and tapple each have over 20 million members, providing truly abundant choices. Especially Pairs has a wealth of features for beginners, like pre-date call functions and message templates, which are reassuring. Tapple's "outing feature" allows you to look for a date partner before matching, which seems good for people who find messaging difficult.

With is geared toward those who want to prioritize compatibility through personality tests. The profile sections are detailed, making it easy to see common points at a glance. Since matching is based on psychological test results, I think it’s a recommended app for people who value inner qualities over appearance.

Regarding safety, all major recommended matching apps have 24-hour monitoring systems and require age verification. More apps are now using facial recognition, making the environment safer than before. They also come with standard features like block functions and reporting systems.

In terms of cost, women can almost use the apps for free, while men typically pay around 3,000 to 4,000 yen per month. CoCome is more expensive at 6,000 yen per month, so if you’re cost-conscious, it’s better to choose from other recommended apps. For those with divorce history or single mothers/fathers, there are specialized apps like Marish that cater specifically to those needs.

Ultimately, the best choice depends on the number of members, safety measures, and whether the app has features that match your goals. Trying out multiple apps is probably the most reliable way to find what works best for you.