# About the Happy [Tomato Handwritten]



What the happy person sees before their eyes is correct.
What the unhappy person sees before their eyes is wrong.
People always fantasize that if things that happened in the past had been different, it would certainly be happier than now. Like in an unhappy marriage, there's definitely someone thinking this way. If I had chosen to be with so-and-so back then, it would definitely be happier than now.
Unhappy people like to nitpick, finding fault with everything around them. But they never recognize their own mistakes. The root cause of living unhappily must lie within themselves. However, passing the buck is a habit for most people. They like to dump their own misfortune onto those around them to cover up their own incompetence.
Like when driving on the road, you're going straight and someone else changes lanes and causes a minor collision. If the other person gets out of the car and starts blaming without hesitation, the best choice is to immediately get back in the car, close the windows, and call the police.
Happy people don't need to have any conversation with unhappy people.
The first element of maintaining your own sense of happiness is to ignore any unhappy people.
Liking to argue with people is what unhappy people do most often, because it's their outlet for releasing unhappy emotions. When you argue with them, you become that garbage bin.
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